tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670360131617205450.post3189727609381210048..comments2023-06-18T05:01:03.708-05:00Comments on Popin' Ain't Easy: "They're Going After My Girls"Throwbackhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14896446477292839087noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670360131617205450.post-34747953841545139882011-12-23T17:11:39.211-06:002011-12-23T17:11:39.211-06:00Thank you for your readership and comments.
Regar...Thank you for your readership and comments.<br /><br />Regarding your points. Someone who indulges melodrama to the extent portrayed in the article opens themselves up for criticism, hence the opening paragraph of my post. Nobody is "coming for" this woman's children and her statement to that effect is sensational and absurd.<br /><br />On the rest, I think it's a natural reaction to question the motives/beliefs of those who react in such a way. Her daughters certainly have no right to be altar servers. There is no injustice here since they aren't being deprived of anything they are due. Why respond in this manner? Why make is a public issue?<br /><br />Your comment about pettiness is interesting, since failing to support the Church financially because of no girl altar servers strikes me as exactly that. Wouldn't that be violating a precept of the Church? As to why boys don't seek vocations, I'm unclear of why your speculation and anecdotes are somehow valid while mine aren't. While data per se doesn't exist on the topic, the stories about groups like the FSSP and other traditional communities (heck, even the SSPX) are always about how they fill seminaries to bursting. Just an observation.<br /><br />By the way, I have three kids, two of whom are of sufficient age and do serve at the altar.Throwbackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14896446477292839087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670360131617205450.post-80877434679804047672011-12-23T09:33:52.283-06:002011-12-23T09:33:52.283-06:00A mother is upset because her daughters would not ...A mother is upset because her daughters would not be permitted to become altar servers, and you mock her for being upset and questioning the motives of people who protest, and criticize them for being insufficiently obedient. The petty tone of your comments and speculating that those with whom you disagree harbor other, unstated, objectionable opinions is high-school debate stuff. <br /><br />Re-reading your comment, it seems that the overall purpose of the post is to make fun of the people protesting. I suppose that the last paragraph contains your point – that point being that girls serving as altar servers is bad. That is supported by your anecdotal observation that when you add girls as altar servers, you think boys won’t do serve any longer. My inference is that you don’t have altar-serving age children. I do. Several of them.<br /><br />Boys do not fail to become altar servers because girls are altar servers. Boys do not become altar servers because their parents let them join hockey leagues that practice on Sunday mornings, or who don’t want to serve in front of a congregation and their parents refuse to say “too bad” and make them do it, or the parents go to Mass and the kids stay at home and play Xbox because it was not worth the fight.<br /><br />The comments about the role of girls as altar servers in the vocations crisis is speculation or, if you will, wishful thinking. If you were serious about that argument, you would point to the vocations rates of parishes that keep girls off the altar with those who do not, but you don’t, because that data does not exist. It is just humbug.<br /><br />My daughters were active in the Mass through high school, as altar servers and Eucharistic ministers. If my parish eliminates girls from alter service, I may not leave my parish, but I will reduce my contributions to something like zero and let the parish know the reason I have done so. Only, the comment relating to girls’ reaction to being close to the action (pun intended) is close to the mark. My daughters remain highly-observant Catholics, but I would be surprised if they do not leave the church at some point for a church that is more congenial to their participation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670360131617205450.post-68276911537570628492011-11-27T17:57:11.149-06:002011-11-27T17:57:11.149-06:00your last paragraph is exactly what our Pastor sai...your last paragraph is exactly what our Pastor said a few weeks ago in his Q&A session with the RCIA group. He tries to separate them so they don't serve together.<br />But it's true, all having altar girls will do for us is lower the number of boys who are close enough to the Sacrament to hear the Call, and expand the number of girls who wonder why, with one foot in the door they are being turned away.<br />Modern society doesn't understand this at all, and so they think we're some kind of backwards weirdos, but equality does not equal "same." It's kind of weird the things people will pick battles over. Makes you wonder how many Catholic doctrines were even being held in that particular household.Paigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02958084273028753944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670360131617205450.post-5503652349784792442011-11-27T07:08:36.488-06:002011-11-27T07:08:36.488-06:00How sad and pathetic.
Stamping her feet because s...How sad and pathetic.<br /><br />Stamping her feet because she can't go into Bluebeard's room.Jenniferhttp://jens-pace.blogspot.com/2009/10/musings-from-mother-of-sick-children.htmlnoreply@blogger.com